Ah, weddings. They’re a blast to attend, but a pain to plan. So, why bother?
Pro tip: don’t.
Elope: run away secretly in order to get married, especially without parental consent.
I eloped last month– just me and my now-husband.
But what about a witness?
Fun fact: In New Hampshire, you don’t need a witness to get married! And there’s no wait time after obtaining your marriage license. (Whereas in states like NY, where we’re from, there’s a 24-hour wait period.)
We weren’t engaged first… so our families and (most) friends didn’t know anything beforehand!
It was our little secret and it was so much fun!
Now that the news is out, I want to share 5 reasons why I skipped the wedding and eloped!
- You’ll save TONS of $$$$$!
According to Fortune.com, the national average cost of a wedding is $35,329! As someone who LOVES to travel, I can’t imagine spending that kind of money for one night (that I probably wouldn’t remember #OpenBar). Here’s what my elopement cost:
Our photographer was the biggest splurge and well worth it. Rachel was incredible and we’ll cherish every pixel of every moment she captured, forever.
- You won’t have to worry about anybody else!
No seating charts, no family/friend drama, no fittings, no bridal showers and unnecessary parties, no registries– literally NOTHING to worry about! Eloping is an incredible opportunity to just spend the day with the one you’re marrying and enjoy every moment, stress-free.
probablydefinitely have more fun!
I’ve never dreamed of having a white dress and a big wedding. My parents got married in City Hall, so it runs in my blood. As much fun as weddings are to attend, for me, it was so much more fun to spend my wedding day with my husband. The day was all ours to do with as we pleased.
- You can wear whatever you want!
I definitely wanted to dress up a bit, but I felt wearing traditional white wouldn’t feel right for an elopement. I found the perfect dress in Marshalls for $25! It fit my petite frame, no tailoring needed! And, it happens to be the colors of both mine and my husband’s birthstones– how perfect is that?! Shoes have never interested me much, so I decided to highlight an organization I love through my footwear.
- You’ll save precious, valuable TIME!
Consider all of the PLANNING that goes into a traditional wedding– from tastings, fittings, bachelor/ette parties, showers, etc., it’s INSANE. I could never be bothered with any of that. Time is precious! And, to think, you’re attending all of these appointments over the course of a year or more all for a party that will last 4-5 hours. NUTS.
- You’ll save TONS of $$$$$!
P.S. What’s a wedding without cake? After taking a few photos around Portsmouth, we parted ways with Rachel and stopped in a random cafe to share a slice of some delicious chocolate mousse cake.
And, to think, people sweat over choosing their cakes!
Spread kindness and cheer, xo